The Best Sex Positions to Try On a Crisp Fall Night

There’s a reason I lovingly refer to the fall as cuddle season: The desire to keep your clothes on and stay bundled up under the covers is stronger than ever. Cuddling in your coziest pajamas tends to be more enticing than stripping them off for sex most nights, and that’s just the honest truth. After all, nothing kills the mood more than begging your partner to cover you with a blanket because you’re freezing. Not to mention, being cold and uncomfortable will make it more difficult to orgasm, even in the best sex position.

If there’s one thing we all know by now, though, it’s that our sex lives require time and attention, no matter the season. And much like we need to adjust our sex positions in the summer when it’s far too hot out to be in close contact, we need to do the same during the fall. This is why we set out to find sex positions that will keep you and your partner cozy while still delivering maximum pleasure. Ahead, we’re sharing the sex positions that are perfect for fall.

Why fall is the perfect time to try new sex positions

Fall has a way of inspiring fresh starts. As you settle into new routines after the busy summer months, set goals for the season ahead, and relish cozier nights, it’s the perfect time to be intentional about your relationship, too. Just as you might recommit to your workout routine or finally get around to tackling your TBR, fall is a great opportunity to shake up your sex life before the hustle of the holidays arrives.

Between more weekends spent at home, weather that practically begs for cuddling on the couch, and a slower pace before the end-of-year chaos kicks in, there’s no better season to prioritize connection. Whether you’re looking to spice things up or simply feel a little closer to your partner, trying new fall sex positions can bring you together—and keep you coming back to each other all season long.

The best fall sex positions

1. Pumpkin Spice

What kind of fall round-up would this be without a reference to pumpkin spice?! This spicier version of the standard cowgirl will give you more clitoral stimulation and deeper penetration, which can come from a penis or a strap-on. This also gives you a chance to control the speed, depth, and angle of penetration.

To try this sex position, find a flat surface with some extra room to spread out—preferably a bed. Straddle your partner with your legs outstretched in front of you while they’re seated upright with their legs stretched out flat in front of them as well. Next, hold on to their shoulders and have them lean back slightly to create some added resistance. Stay like this, and from there, rock back and forth accordingly.

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2. Riding the Broomstick

A bewitching twist to girl-on-top—this gives vulva owners a chance to take charge and receive some ultra-deep penetration and G-spot stimulation, too. Grab two chairs and have the partner with the penis or strap-on lie flat on their back across both chairs, mimicking a plank position. Their elbows and upper torso should be on one chair, and their feet should be on the other. Then, keeping your feet planted on the ground, climb on top and ride them cowgirl style.

A spicy tip: A witch costume is totally optional, but it might be a good way to introduce some role-play into your sex life if you’re up for it.

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3. The Mixing Spoon

Perfect for doing under a blanket, on a lazy Sunday, or while you’re watching what’s new on streaming—the mixing spoon is like spooning but better. It throws a vibrator into the mix and grants the giving partner direct access to the erogenous zones. So, grab your favorite vibrator and set yourself up like you normally would for spooning. Then, have the receiving partner relax while the giving partner places the vibrator wherever the receiver wants.

You can also up the ante and add in some penetration, though that’s totally optional. However, direct internal stimulation combined with external stimulation from the vibrator is a surefire way to climax.

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4. Under-the-Covers 69

There’s a reason this oral sex position is a beloved classic: It works for everyone regardless of sexual orientation and gender, and both partners are simultaneously receiving and giving pleasure. This fall, take the classic 69 under the covers to create a sense of intimacy and amp up the coziness between the two of you.

If you’re doing this with a penis owner, then you’ll want to be on top. If you’re not, though, then you can be either top or bottom. Either way, the warmth from your bodies combined with the weight and warmth from the blanket can help bring you both to orgasm. Of course, you can always throw a sex toy into the mix if you wish.

5. Lotus Lust

Is there a better way to get heated than with a sex position that’s all about skin-to-skin and direct eye contact? The lotus sex position is essentially a seated hug and works best if you’re having penetrative sex with a penis or sex toy, but fingers can certainly be used as well.

If your partner is doing the penetration, have them sit cross-legged on the floor. (You might want to grab a blanket for extra comfort on their tailbone.) Then, climb into their lap, wrap your legs around their waist, and curl your arms behind their back. Next, have your partner wrap their arms behind your back to ensure you’re close to one another. From there, grind slowly and together until one or both of you climaxes, looking into each other’s eyes the whole time.

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6. Pretzel Missionary 

If you have a vulva, set yourself up as you would as a bottom for the missionary sex position. Have your partner lean over you, placing their hands on either side of your face, then wrap your legs around their back, crossing your legs at the ankles to resemble a pretzel. This slight change in positioning will give the penetrating partner deeper access, which in turn will provide you with more internal G-spot stimulation. Plus, you’ll be able to cozy up to each other more, ensuring you both stay heated.

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7. The Spider

As far as sex positions go, this is one of the best for savoring each other, building intimacy, and maximizing skin-to-skin contact. And much like the mixing spoon, it can be performed under a blanket while you’re binge-watching your favorite thriller. Lie on your sides so you’re facing each other. Then, start by making out. Touch each other and take things slow as a way to build tension and desire. Finally, when you’re ready, hook your leg over your partner’s and have them penetrate you. This penetration can be whatever you want: fingers, a strap-on, a vibrator or dildo, or a penis.

8. Fireside Lazy Doggy

Is there anything more romantic than making love beside a lit fireplace? If you don’t have a fireplace, don’t worry. Instead, light some candles and place them around the room (far away from where you could knock them over, of course). Then, dim the lights and create a makeshift bed on the floor with some blankets, sheets, and pillows that are soft and washable.

Lie face down on your makeshift bed with your knees slightly bent, legs open, and your hips propped up under a pillow. From there, your partner will kneel and enter you from behind via a penis, fingers, or a toy, pressing their torso onto your back as they go in. This will put them close to or right beside your ears and neck. Make it even hotter by having them kiss your neck, bite your ear, or whisper dirty, lovely things into it.

9. The Cozy Crab

For those nights when spooning on the couch leads to something steamy, this sex position is easy to transition into. All you have to do is basically roll over, and you’re in position. To try it, the receiver lies on their stomach with one leg bent and slightly lifted, and the giver settles on top from behind, keeping their knees bent and body draped close. Once the giver enters, it’s surprisingly low-effort. It provides lots of body contact and just enough leverage for a slow, steady rhythm, which is exactly what we’re all looking for on a low-key fall evening.

10. Sideways Oral

Is there anything better than a side-lying sex position on a relaxing night at home? Not as far as I’m concerned. Start by lining up face-to-face on your sides and making out and touching each other. Then, while one partner stays put, the other shimmies down to pleasure them. This slight deviation from a traditional oral sex position opens up even more ways to explore with your mouth and hands, whether it’s done on a bed, the floor, or on the couch. It feels intimate and relaxed every time, and with a little bit of eye contact, it gets very hot.

Tips for Making Cozy Nights More Intimate

Trying a new sex position can add excitement, but creating the right atmosphere beforehand can make the experience feel even more intentional and connected. Here are a few ways you can make cozy fall nights more intimate with your partner so that you both feel more relaxed and present.

Set the mood: You know the drill! Light a few candles, put on a cozy playlist, and dim the lights. Fall is all about the ambiance, and nothing is more romantic than a relaxing playlist and a candlelit room. This will help you both feel more at ease, especially after long days at work or busy fall weekends filled with activities.

Prioritize foreplay earlier in the evening: Intimacy doesn’t have to begin in the bedroom. In fact, since it gets darker earlier, you’ll benefit from starting foreplay earlier, so you don’t immediately fall asleep the second your head hits the pillow. Cook a comforting recipe together, cuddle while watching a movie, give each other a massage, play a sexy card game, or spend time talking without distractions to build anticipation and connection. This will make the night feel more special, which can help naturally translate into intimacy.

Talk about what you want to try: If you’re introducing a new sex position, have a quick conversation beforehand about what feels comfortable, what you’re both curious about, and what sounds fun. Open communication can make trying something new feel exciting rather than intimidating. Plus, talking about sex can help you feel closer to your partner, which naturally makes sex feel more natural and enjoyable.

Remove the pressure to be perfect: The goal isn’t to perfect every position. Instead, it’s to enjoy spending time together and have a little fun along the way. If something doesn’t work, laugh it off, adjust, and focus on what feels good for both of you. Just because you’re trying new positions doesn’t mean you can’t return to popular sex positions you know and love.

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