Not Every Team Needs a BBQ and Beer Garden

It’s the time of year when Instagram is filled with BBQs, rooftop drinks, and matching T-shirts. And while a summer party can be great for morale, let’s be honest: sometimes it’s just not the right fit.

Maybe you’re swamped.
Maybe your budget is stretched.
Or maybe — and this matters — your team just isn’t the “let’s all hang out after hours” crowd.

So what can you do instead?

In this blog, we’re looking at summer party alternatives — meaningful ways to show your team they’re valued, without the logistics (or the legal risks) of a full-blown event.

 And if you are planning a team do?
 Listen to our latest podcast episode: Summer Socials Without the Drama. It’s packed with real stories, legal must-knows, and practical tips for getting it right.

Why Ditching the Party Isn’t a Failure

The summer work social isn’t a legal requirement. It’s not a marker of good culture. It’s a tool — one of many — to build connection and retention. And like any tool, it only works if it fits.

If your team is burnt out, budget is tight, or planning feels like a job too far, skip the party guilt-free.

Here’s what you can do instead.

1. Early-Finish Fridays That Don’t Need Explaining

The phrase “head off early if it’s quiet” often just creates confusion. Make it clear and official:

• One early-finish Friday each month
• No meetings after 2pm
• Encourage real sign-off — no emails, no guilt

It gives back time (without costing you anything) and signals trust.

2. Low-Key Thank Yous That Still Land

Recognition doesn’t need speeches. It just needs sincerity.

Quick wins:

• A handwritten thank-you card posted to their door
• A Costa, M&S or Deliveroo voucher with no strings
• A surprise “Summer Reset Day” — pick any day off, no approval needed

Don’t wrap it in performance goals. Just say, “Thanks for what you’re doing — it matters.”

3. In-House Awards That Aren’t Awkward

Formal awards can feel corporate or forced. But peer-led appreciation? That hits differently.

Try:

• Light-touch nominations from colleagues (“Most Helpful in a Crisis”, “Spreadsheet Legend”)
• £5 thank-you gifts — a plant, a mug, a pack of biscuits
• A quick share in Slack or a Monday huddle

It’s low pressure, still fun — and gives quieter team members a chance to shine.

4. Shared Moments That Don’t Involve RSVPs

Connection doesn’t need coordination. Try small, easy-to-run moments that bring people together:

• Surprise breakfast pastries in the office
• Ice lollies in the fridge on hot days
• A Spotify playlist built by the team
• 15-minute “get outside” breaks at 3pm

These gestures are repeatable, low-fuss and keep morale ticking.

5. Ask Before You Reward

If you’re not sure how your team likes to be recognised — ask. The answers may surprise you.

Some might want:

• Time off instead of gifts
• Training or development vouchers
• More flexibility, not more socials
• Recognition in private, not public

One KUHR client ditched the annual summer party for a simple “Me Time Budget” — three hours a month for whatever recharges each person. Staff engagement actually improved.

And If You Are Throwing a Party…

We’ve got something for you, too.

 Listen to our latest podcast: Summer Socials Without the Drama

You’ll hear:

• The HR pitfalls of workplace parties (yes, even the afterparty counts)
• How to keep it inclusive — from fasting staff to neurodivergent colleagues
• Tips for managing alcohol, behaviour and safeguarding
• True horror stories that’ll make you rethink the venue choice

It’s the episode every small business owner should hear before they put a deposit down.

What Really Matters

Summer isn’t about showing up on social media with matching T-shirts and a branded gazebo. It’s about connection — however that looks for your business.

Whether that’s a quiet thank-you note, an early finish, or a well-run party, the goal is the same:

Make your people feel seen, appreciated, and respected.

And sometimes, skipping the BBQ is the best way to do just that.